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Tonight In Rock: Mates Of State, Baths, Stevenson Ranch Davidians, Moses Campbell
Baths will be performing tonight at the Troubadour | Picture via Anticon Our Pick : Baths’ record release, Daedelus, El Ten Eleven, Matthewdavid @ Troubadour Tonight Kansas-bred indie pop duo Mates of States ( LAist Review ) will be concluding a two-night stint at the Echo with none other than the City of Brotherly Love’s rock and roll quintet Free Energy ( LAist Interview ). Local folk rockers …

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I am recently married. 5 months and i am 3 months pregnant. It came as a shock to me as i’d wanted us to first cement and enjoy our marriage as a couple but… oh well.. Surprise!! I am coming to terms with it and i do have mixed feelings about the baby BUT i do know that i want this baby. My problem is that i feel that my husband’s life hasn’t changed while mine dictates that i stay at home as i’ve been on bed rest – doc orders. I can go out over the weekend so long as i don’t walk long distances. I cherish our outings but he seems preoccupied and restless to be elsewhere… like having a drink with his mates. He makes up business meeting excuses over the weekend every now and again and comes in staggering at 3am. I feel neglected, needy and angry all the time as he lies to spend time with his boys and it feels like he prefers their company over mine.

The recession has affected our finances as well as our sex life. He avoids it and i’ve raised it numerous times. Now i just feel sex starved and unattractive though he reassures me that it isn’t me. He asks me to be patient with him as he has a lot on his mind that’s work related.

I moved to a foreign country to be with him and make our marriage work but it feels like i moved to have a house for company. Am i being too needy, insensitive or is there something that i can say to make him understand how i feel coz right now he just doesn’t get it.

As i write, he is at another business meeting. Help!

I used 2 b in a grp of friends were der was 5 of us nd we were all hapy but den wen we hav fallouts i’ll go off wit lucy* nd charlie* nd katie* nd sarah* wld go off on der own. But da probs is, is dat i only do it coz dey r in ma class nd i dn’t wnt dem makin rude comments. Realli i wnt 2 b m8’s wit sarah nd katie coz i can tlk 2 dem bout ma probz nd i cnt do dat wit da ova 2. also me nd charlie keep havin loadsa mini arguments nd i jus aint happy anymore nd dunno wht 2 do. Lucy nd charlie dnt wanna b m8’s wit sarah nd katie anymore but i do nd dey dnt wnt me 2 mke up wit dem!! i jus dunno wht 2 do??? helpp!!
i hope u understood dat coz dat was long story short writtin.

or will he catch up???

do u beleive that it is possible for a human being in this lifetime to meet the person they are destined to be with? it is hard for u guys to bealive but im am 23 years old and was always looking for just one compaion i can spend my life with and the average 23 years old doesnt know what they want lol i hurt really bad i was going to get married but things went bad now i kinda dont thimk about marriage much now i also am learning more about myself.